Can I Change a Custody Order After Divorce? | Colorado Custody Modifications | Tanda Law Firm
- matanda33
- Sep 23
- 3 min read
Life changes: jobs, relocation, child needs, safety concerns, sometimes require custody modifications. Colorado law allows modification of parenting time and decision‑making when there’s a substantial change in circumstances and the modification serves the child’s best interests. This guide explains grounds for modification, the step‑by‑step process, evidence that helps, and practical alternatives to court.

Why Modifications Happen
Common triggers include parental relocation, changes in work schedule, a child’s special needs, substance misuse, domestic violence, or significant changes in parents’ availability. Courts balance continuity for the child with current realities; consistent, documented reasons and child‑centered solutions increase chances of a successful modification.
1. Legal standard in Colorado
• A modification generally requires a substantial and continuing change in circumstances since the last order, and the proposed change must be in the child’s best interests.
• For temporary emergency orders (safety concerns), different standards apply: immediate protective relief may be available.
2. Common valid reasons to seek modification
• Parent’s relocation affecting travel and school stability.
• New work schedule preventing current parenting time.
• Child’s medical or educational needs requiring different care or environments.
• Evidence of neglect, abuse, or substance misuse harming the child.
• Parental military deployment or long‑term health issues.
3. What counts as a “substantial change”?
• Courts look for changes that are ongoing and materially affect parenting time or decision‑making (e.g., job moves, a parent’s incarceration, significant change in child’s needs). Temporary or short‑lived changes are less likely to support modification.
4. Alternatives before filing for modification
• Negotiate directly and update the parenting plan by written agreement (file with court for enforceability).
• Try mediation or collaborative law to reach a practical solution without litigation.
• Use a parenting coordinator for narrow issues or frequent day‑to‑day disputes.
5. Evidence that strengthens a modification request
• Clear documentation: calendars, school records, medical records, employer letters, police reports.
• Witness statements from teachers, therapists, or childcare providers.
• Records showing inconsistent compliance with current order or risks to the child.
6. Temporary vs. permanent modifications
• Temporary modifications address immediate needs (e.g., safety or work‑based schedule) and may be set for fixed periods.
• Permanent modifications alter long‑term parenting time or decision authority and require stronger proof of sustained change.
7. Process and timeline (typical steps)
• Attempt resolution (direct negotiation, mediation).
• File a motion to modify with the court and serve the other parent.
• Court may set a temporary hearing for emergency relief if safety is alleged.
• Discovery and evidence exchange if contested.
• Final hearing where the judge evaluates best interests and evidence.
• Timeline varies; uncontested modifications can be weeks–months; contested matters often take longer.
8. Practical tips while pursuing modification
• Keep thorough records and logs (dates, missed exchanges, incidents affecting the child).
• Continue to comply with existing orders unless a court grants temporary relief.
• Prioritize options that minimize disruption for the child (agreeing to interim schedules if possible).
• Consult an attorney early—legal advice helps you document correctly and avoid missteps.
9. Costs and alternatives to full litigation
• Litigation can be costly; mediation and negotiated amendments are faster and less expensive.
• Courts may order parenting‑time evaluations in high‑conflict cases—prepare accordingly.
10. When to seek emergency relief
• If there’s immediate risk of harm, file an emergency motion and provide supporting evidence (police reports, medical records, signed statements). Courts act quickly on safety matters.
11. How an attorney helps
• Advise whether your situation likely meets the substantial change standard.
• Draft and file motions, prepare evidence, and represent you at hearings.
• Negotiate parenting plans that reduce future conflict and create enforceable, clear terms.
Need Help?
Considering a custody change? Schedule a 30‑minute virtual consultation to assess your options, document your case, and plan a child‑centered path forward.
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